- wrestle
- wrestle, tussle, grapple, scuffle mean to struggle with an opponent at close quarters.Wrestle basically implies a struggle for mastery by gripping with hands, arms, and legs, often in ways governed by fixed rules; the term connotes the exercise of skill and ingenuity as well as strength. In its extended use wrestle also implies a struggle for mastery, but it may suggest either a striving for superiority or for a particular advantage or a laborious effort (as in understanding, in seeking, or in overcoming){
compelled to wrestle with the increasing difficulties of his office
}{the perfectionist's instinct for wrestling with a problem until he had shaped it to his mental image— Kolodin
}{the man who has never wrestled with his early faith . . . has missed not only a moral but an intellectual discipline— Ellis
}Tussle also suggests a struggle for mastery, but it implies determination rather than skill or ingenuity and willingness to accept the rough-and-tumble conditions of such a struggle{the boys tussled long and hard
}{tussle with a problem in mathematics
}{a strong man who could tussle with evil and conquer— Caspary
}Grapple stresses the action of taking hold of or coming to grips with; the term carries a stronger implication of being in a position to gain the mastery and, usually, of a successful struggle{grappled with his assailant, pinning one of his arms behind him
}{the architect has grappled with more problems than one need hope to see solved in any single church— Henry Adams
}{it has been mainly the academicians who have attempted to grapple with the . . . intricacies of Joyce's mysticism of the flesh— Mailer
}Scuffle may imply brief, confused, usually not very serious fighting involving much scrambling and noise{boys scuffled with each other in the schoolyard
}It may suggest hurry or superficiality in overcoming difficulties{you go to school and scuffle on the best way you can— Runciman
}Analogous words: *contend, fight, battle, war: *resist, withstand, combat, oppose: strive, endeavor, essay (see ATTEMPT): labor, toil, travail (see corresponding nouns at WORK) wretched *miserableAnalogous words: *despondent, forlorn, hopeless, despairing: doleful, dolorous, *melancholy: abject, sordid, *mean: pitiable, piteous, *pitiful wring vb *wrench, wrest
New Dictionary of Synonyms. 2014.